This article first appeared in the September 11, 2025 Prizmah Blog. Reprinted with permission.
by Maury Grebenau
Although Jewish day school leaders have all the challenges of other school leaders, they lack the type of training that is baked into the public school system; no specific license, coursework or training is expected. While some new leaders may navigate these challenges despite insufficient preparation and lack of support, some do not. Credible longitudinal data has yet to be collected on the extent of leadership attrition in non-head of school roles; nevertheless, in our current pipeline crisis it is clear that we can’t afford to lose talent.
My doctoral research and experience leading Jewish New Teachers Project’s Administrator Support Program point to the fact that marshaling both internal and external support is the most potent way to assure a new administrator learns the ropes in a way that does not burn them out and sets them up for success. The goal of supporting a new administrator is not to avoid rookie mistakes but rather to turn them into learning opportunities. This post details some of the most effective practices.
Internal Support
Internal support consists of support from the supervisor and also from peers. Supervisors of new administrators have an important role to play in setting up new administrators for success, crafting their responsibilities and giving them feedback.
Set them up for success by formally introducing them to the whole school community. Be clear about the roles and authority of the new administrator, and publicly express faith and confidence. Encourage them to advocate for their perspective.
Thoughtfully craft their responsibilities. With so much to do, an administrator’s role can frequently feel set in stone—we just need them to “do the job.” However, we should consider what will contribute to the long-term viability of an administrator. New administrators who are struggling with too many responsibilities often do not create sufficient space for creative thinking and relationship-building that contributes to job satisfaction.
Additionally, it is important to create a schedule that enables new administrators to do teacher observations and give feedback. This is the real work of instructional leadership and will quickly help the administrator learn about the real teaching and learning in the school as well as establish them as involved and value-added for the teachers. This may mean keeping a teaching load to a minimum. A portion of regular check-in meetings with their supervisor should be dedicated to sharing data from their teacher observations and other aspects of their role. Spend time together looking for patterns in the data and identifying strategies for support.
Take a long-term perspective when thinking about your administrator. Instead of being driven by the needs of the school, which often results in overloading new administrators, consider ways to ensure an introduction to leadership that paves the way for long-term success.
Apprenticeship. A handful of administrators we have worked with (and one in my study) had the opportunity to be apprenticed into their new role, spending a year growing their capacities before assuming the full slate of responsibilities. For many schools, this may be an impossible luxury, but if even certain aspects of the role can be staggered, it is helpful.
Coach them. Even when this is not realistic, supervisors should adopt a coaching mindset in relation to their new administrator. Coaching does not mean simply offering advice about what you would do in this situation. Help the new administrator understand the dynamics at play and the larger issues. Ask them good questions and help them unpack their own thinking.
Give granular feedback. Give new administrators feedback explicitly tied to Emotional Intelligence, identifying areas of strength and needed development. My research identified these areas as some of the most critical for new leaders. Although often neglected due to limited time, post-mortem discussions are opportunities to acknowledge growth and identify challenge areas, flattening the growth curve.
In addition to the supervisor, other administrators in the school can offer critical peer support to a new administrator as part of the internal support network. One powerful activity is a “problem (or dilemma) of practice” protocol, where an administrator shares a specific issue they are experiencing and discusses it with the leadership team. In addition to strengthening bonds within the team and contributing to creating a growth-oriented community, this practice models learning that embraces taking risks and making mistakes, acknowledging that many issues we face are complex adaptive challenges.
External Support
Even with the most supportive internal head of school and leadership team, it is important to complement internal support by setting a new administrator up with external support. Having an avenue of support that includes a perspective external to the school allows for more vulnerability and expanded thinking. Both my research and professional experience have revealed two aspects to be critical.
Coaching. As one of my research participants said, coaching contributed significantly to “turning rookie mistakes into opportunities to learn.” In our coaching of leaders, we have seen how focused coaching encourages self-reflection, changing behaviors and supporting new administrators in real growth.
Cohort. Being part of a professional cohort of others who are engaged in similar leadership works provides emotional support, including feeling less lonely, and also normalizes challenges, removing any self-imposed stigma. Additionally, speaking to others about challenges often leads to healthier perspectives, and creative solutions can emerge from the group.
As we continue to respond to the leadership-pipeline crisis in our Jewish day schools, it will be even more important to make sure we have clarity about the challenges of early leadership and how we can prepare and support these new leaders. Through preparation and support built with these challenges in mind, we can take steps to retain the talent we need to lead our schools into the future.




